anonsnewsletter asked:
Re bihacking. I found kink a good gateway. You can practice ropework or hitty things or similar with guys without setting off any alarm bells. Then carry on until you're in a full blown kink scene with them. Add more intimacy and remove clothing. Then add sexual elements as desired. Worked very well in my case. Good luck.
I thought about this, but it doesn’t sound all that helpful for me personally. I’d rather do the traditional talking→first base→second→third→home. I’m not opposed to gay kink, I just find the idea of combining gay experimentation and kink experimentation to be too much at once.